Upcoming Swinger Parties & Lifestyle Events in South Africa

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31 upcoming events across South Africa  ·  Updated daily
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Thursday Daytime Fun
📅 Thursday, 23 Jul 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Kink Collective - Building a Dynamic
📅 Thursday, 23 Jul 2026
📍 Casa Kink Dungeon
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Freaky Fantasy Friday
📅 Friday, 24 Jul 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Christmas in July
📅 Saturday, 25 Jul 2026
📍 Club Amsterdam
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Same Room Orgy
📅 Saturday, 25 Jul 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Back to School Swinger Party
📅 Saturday, 25 Jul 2026
📍 Liza's Lounge, Table View
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Wine and Sex Toys Pairing Event | 25th July 2026
📅 Saturday, 25 Jul 2026
📍 Allure Sensuality Emporium, Milnerton
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Sandton Jills - Ladies Only Kink Event
📅 Sunday, 26 Jul 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Dungeon Day
📅 Wednesday, 29 Jul 2026
📍 Casa Kink Dungeon
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Kink Collective - Your Risk Profile & Assessing Risk
📅 Thursday, 30 Jul 2026
📍 Casa Kink Dungeon
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Freaky Fantasy Friday
📅 Friday, 31 Jul 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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ULP Uniform Night
📅 Saturday, 01 Aug 2026
📍 Club Amsterdam
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ELITE Events: Indulgence Party
📅 Saturday, 01 Aug 2026
📍 Milnerton – Western Cape
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FetishHavenSA 10th Birthday - Night at the Oscars
📅 Saturday, 01 Aug 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Dungeon Day
📅 Wednesday, 05 Aug 2026
📍 Casa Kink Dungeon
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Non-Monogamous Collective - Deconstructing RA
📅 Wednesday, 05 Aug 2026
📍 Casa Kink Dungeon
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Freaky Fantasy Friday
📅 Friday, 07 Aug 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Women's Day - Hosted by Miss Cleo
📅 Saturday, 08 Aug 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Towel & Gown Naked
📅 Saturday, 08 Aug 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Dungeon Day
📅 Wednesday, 12 Aug 2026
📍 Casa Kink Dungeon
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Curious Collective: Exploring Kink Together
📅 Thursday, 13 Aug 2026
📍 Casa Kink Dungeon
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Freaky Fantasy Friday
📅 Friday, 14 Aug 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Candle Wax & Chocolate Evening
📅 Saturday, 15 Aug 2026
📍 Allure Sensuality Emporium
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Mythical Mayhem
📅 Saturday, 15 Aug 2026
📍 Casa Kink
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Dungeon Day
📅 Wednesday, 19 Aug 2026
📍 Casa Kink Dungeon
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Freaky Fantasy Friday
📅 Friday, 21 Aug 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Dungeon Day
📅 Wednesday, 26 Aug 2026
📍 Casa Kink Dungeon
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Freaky Fantasy Friday
📅 Friday, 28 Aug 2026
📍 Fetish Haven SA
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Dungeon Day
📅 Wednesday, 02 Sep 2026
📍 Casa Kink Dungeon
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The House - An immersive Social Mystery
📅 Saturday, 05 Sep 2026
📍 Casa Kink
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10 of the Best
📅 Saturday, 26 Sep 2026
📍 Casa Kink
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